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	<title>The Common Tone</title>
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	<description>Ever notice that some of the best discoveries, the clearest thinking and the best discussions take place in coffee houses or with a hot beverage in hand? While reading this blog take the chance to relax, drink something warming and be. While youâ€™re here put your over-active brain to rest and let the moment wash over you.</description>
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		<title>The Virtue of Food</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 15:18:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I believe that everybody has one thing. Something that is theirs, an insignia upon their individual banner which they hold high. Of course there are many things in which we believe, but this one thing is the culmination of our beliefs and we hold it as dear as life itself - for many it represents [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe that everybody has one <em>thing</em>. Something that is theirs, an insignia upon their individual banner which they hold high. Of course there are many things in which we believe, but this one <em>thing</em> is the culmination of our beliefs and we hold it as dear as life itself - for many it represents all that is good and sacred in life. Perhaps one&#8217;s <em>thing </em> takes the form of a career, or perhaps it plays no part in daily life at all, but simply smolders in the furnace that fuels us. In any case, aside from its recognition, it makes little difference. An excitation of one&#8217;s passions, after all, can take place only with the recognition (perhaps development would be more adroit) of this thing. I sincerely hope, though have no way of knowing for certain, that this thing is the channel through which one hopes to make a positive contribution to whichever world one chooses. This thing represents the space in which one is sheltered from numbing relativism or ironically overzealous moderation. It is where no excuses are made, but learning is constant, passionate, exciting, and meaningful. It is in my thing that I firmly plant my feet and say, &#8220;I care, this matters to me!&#8221;</p>
<p>However accurate the above description actually portrays reality, it certainly sounds like a great system. The astounding number of individuals with their breadth of individuality ensures that everything will be cared about by <em>someone</em>. To clarify, this <em>thing</em> is not all or nothing, rather it is the personal line which connects you to the world around you in a meaningful way. Could it change with time? Perhaps, humans are apt to do so from time to time. For some people it is religion, for others it is technology, still others find their crusade in animals; the list continues, but for me I am planted firmly in food (excuse the pun). Why? Well, I&#8217;m glad you asked:</p>
<blockquote><p>The most fundamentally selfless and communitarian thing we do is to share food; it is the very basis of society. Sex we do not share; we are possessive, jealous and secretive, prone to murdering our sexual rivals and guarding our partners if given the chance. But food is something to share.<br />
                                                                                        From <em>The Origins of Virtue</em> by Matt Ridley<br />
                                                                                        Taken from the chapter entitled &#8220;Duty and Feast; In which human generosity with food is explained.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>So I obsess about food (and I include drink in this as well). It is not simply a matter of loving to eat it, though that bit is certainly nice. No, it is every aspect of food: the growing, the preparation, the eating - all of which involves community and sharing. One of the reasons why I continue to develop a love of food is because it is not so easy to take for granted today. Not in its plentifulness, as I am very fortunate in that regard; rather in the quality of every stage. To illustrate this I will recount a discussion I had with a friend of late:</p>
<p>In discussing food, my profound love and his mild indifference therefor, we somehow got to the topic of importation. While he was absolutely for free trade and the opportunity for a Peruvian man to export his potatoes to my home, I was vehemently against it. I explained my position thus:</p>
<p>First and foremost I think it is abundantly clear that, unfortunate though it may be, people will almost always buy the cheaper of two goods, no matter the other, perhaps less empirical costs to them and their community. But these costs are far from negligible. Lynn Truss of <em>Eats, Shoots and Leaves</em> fame recently published a book called <em>The Utter Bloody Rudeness of the World Today or Six Good Reasons to Stay Home and Bolt the Door</em>. In it she talks about, though rants might be a better term, the individual bubble phenomenon. Ridley&#8217;s book develops on the &#8220;theories&#8221; in Truss&#8217; book by blaming the lack of niceness on the lack of opportunity for reciprocal behavior. In other words, we are nice to people because we want them to be nice to us, thus developing a society of cooperating and generally pleasant people. This theory however depends on people in a community seeing each other more than once; repeated interaction as could be logically expected in a community. We are slowly destroying the systems we so painstakingly (and evolutionarily) put in place to ensure that people not only interact, but through these interactions feel responsibility for others. While not altruism in its purest sense, it is the human version of the ideal. This repeated interaction ensures that, for the most part, everyone treats everyone else well so that they and their relatives (read: genes) may be treated well in return and thus prosper. But, if we see someone, whom we are sure never to see again, while passing in an automobile at 80Km/h, we have no difficulty offering them obscene gestures and a loud F$%@ %^f. </p>
<p>One of the above mentioned systems which is being destroyed is our food system. When I buy my potatoes from a guy (or corporation) in Peru, neither he nor I am benefiting from any sort of interaction because we&#8217;re both dealing with giant, faceless corporations from thousands of miles away. And if you&#8217;re thinking about discussions with people who sell the potatoes to you, consider that for a moment; how much do you actually know about the cashier at the SuperStore? Every Saturday morning however I meet and have a conversation with Johann, a German baker at the market, then later talk about veggies and life with Anne at my usual veggie stand. How often do people say that &#8220;networking is the key&#8221; in business? Why doesn&#8217;t that apply to life anymore? As we lose the systems we built to ensure a functioning society based on cooperation, what takes its place? I hate to blame things on the machines of capitalism and government, for what are they but the systems we support; I think it is abundantly clear that we are losing our social systems and the drive to get them back is just beginning.<br />
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<p>I know you&#8217;ve all heard the evils of the green revolution and &#8220;conventional&#8221; agriculture, so I won&#8217;t bombard you. Just remember, while you can (and should!) visit the farmers (who by this time are also friends!) nearby, you have no idea what those veggies in the Superstore went through just to get here.</p>
<p>P.S - I have nothing against Peru, indeed I have never been there.</p>
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		<title>Transcending the Transcendent</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2008 16:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>I am sitting here in my office listening to Trio Sonatas from Handel and Corelli and looking out from the top of the hill in Fredericton at, well the entire city of Fredericton. There is something about this style and era of music which allows me to transcend the moment. It brings a smile and certain lightness which I can find in few other places. It brings a certain significance to the silence of the trees swaying outside and the bug-like cars and people moving four stories below. It is transcendence, but one that allows a closeness to the mundane that we usually shield ourselves from. It offers a perspective different from that within my mind. No doubt it is thoughtfully contemplative and reflective, like almost everything else I do as a philosophy student, but it is also profoundly peaceful. It delves to the heart of what really matters, and interestingly though unsurprisingly it brings me to the wind, the trees, the cars and the people; it brings me to peace.</p>
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		<title>The Analogy</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 16:35:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a continuance, of sorts, from the last post I would like to present a problem in the form of an analogy. It is fine to say that free expression exists, a statement that I wouldn&#8217;t necessarily disagree with. However, to what extent it exists and under what subtleties freedom is confined is a whole [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a continuance, of sorts, from the last post I would like to present a problem in the form of an analogy. It is fine to say that free expression exists, a statement that I wouldn&#8217;t necessarily disagree with. However, to what extent it exists and under what subtleties freedom is confined is a whole new realm. In <em>What is Enlightenment?</em> Kant showed us that enlightenment can be achieved only if &#8220;the public concerned is left in freedom&#8221;<sup>1</sup>. With freedom a public can awaken itself from its “self incurred immaturity” wherein they are too lazy to use their own reasoning relying instead on being told what to do. As Kant so frighteningly puts it:</p>
<blockquote><p>It is so convenient to be immature. If I have a book to have understanding in place of me, a spiritual advisor to have a conscience for me, a doctor to judge my diet for me, and so on, I need not make any efforts at all. I need not think, so long as I can pay; others will soon enough take the tiresome job over for me. </p></blockquote>
<p>Does this not sound familiar? “I need not think, so long as I can pay”, could easily be a capitalist motto. Our entire modern society is built on the idea of convenience – ultimately tying us down to become slaves, not even to other people, but to computers, the internet and other machines we build. We are regressing so seriously from Kant’s definition of social enlightenment that we have to ask: What do we know? It is especially frightening when it comes to morality and ethics. Since we “outsource” almost everything else, even original thought in many cases, it follows that we rely on others to tell us what moral or ethical behavior is. Yet, if we are incapable of challenging these pronouncements, how can we be sure that what our “advisors” say is moral, really is moral? Thankfully there are still many, many people who continue in free thought, though perhaps not in totally free speech. For this reason I offer the following analogy as a question/challenge.</p>
<p>Bob is applying for jobs having completed his first bachelor’s degree. He is passionate about the environment and knows, without a doubt, that he wants to do something to help ensure a green future for following generations. Bob is a smart guy and has a bright future with a shining resume. He applies to a few environmental consulting firms, enjoying the idea of helping businesses and homes alike become more environmentally active.<br />
 He soon hears back from one company, EnviroClean, and they offer him a position as an environmental consultant. However, while he was waiting for the companies to get back to him he was able to do some research about each of them. He found out that EnviroClean had a history of Greenwashing, or aiding in Greenwashing, a practice which hits rock bottom on Bob’s ethical thermostat. This is the only offer he got, and he really wants to work in the field. He has no practical experience, and no credit to start his own consulting firm. He is unsure what to do. He knows that if he accepts the job he could get the experience, contacts and funds he needs to start his own group in future. He is also painfully aware that by joining such a group he is directly supporting unethical, immoral practices and promoting a corrupt system. His chances of making any changes within the system are minute, since EnviroClean is a large firm. The documents he has to sign as an employee ensure that his responsibilities lie toward the betterment of the firm, and that his freedom to express any opinions which might harm the firm lie within the judgment of those running the business. </p>
<p>Bob is clearly intelligent and morally sensitive. In the end his question comes down to a question of responsibility. Does Bob have responsibility only to himself and the economy, as capitalism and modern society generally insist? If so, the question is easily answered. Or, does Bob have a responsibility to all life; past, present, future: human and otherwise? If so, the question becomes much more complex and difficult to answer. In other words it becomes inconvenient. We ask for convenience, but at what cost?</p>
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<p><strong>An Afterthought</strong> - In <em>What is Enlightenment</em> Kant says:<br />
&#8220;The public use of man&#8217;s reason must always be free; the private use of reason may quite often be very narrowly restricted, however, without undue hindrance to the progress of enlightenment.&#8221;<br />
This is exactly the case in the example I used last post, where the priest could not voice full his convictions in his role as leader of a congregation. Once out of his ministerial role and proclaimed simply as a rational member of society, he can express himself as he wishes. Idealistic? Perhaps. The same could be true for Bob; however, if he were to publicly voice opposition to certain of the company&#8217;s actions (e.g. greenwashing) he would most likely be fired, but in addition might face legal action due to the contracts he signed at the beginning. Companies, I assume, take contractual measures to avoid legal action should they react with a dismissal to an employees unfavorable public expression. Unfortunately Canada lags a bit behind in <a href="http://www.nupge.ca/news_2003/n06no03a.htm">&#8220;whistleblower&#8221; legislation</a>; even so, companies have enough lawyers to build contractual obligations which avoid major legal ramifications should an employee exercise their freedom of expression &#8221; in the wrong way&#8221;. Where is the free in free expression?</p>
<p>Maybe when Kant said: &#8220;Have courage to use your own understanding&#8221;, the courage was meant for the consequences.<br />
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1. Interesting to note that Kant says <em>left</em> in freedom, rather than <em>given </em>freedom or some such. Kant clearly thinks that freedom is the default – the validity of this is a whole new discussion.</p>
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		<title>Complications</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 14:38:24 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder if it is a new phenomenon that speaking and writing are now two of the most ethically and morally complex acts in existence. As the world becomes more amorphous and people become more intertwined, clashes of every type are bound to happen. It speaks for itself that the limitation of violent clashes is ideal; but this logic may not simply transfer to other more metaphysical clashes. If limitation of intellectual strife means the tempering of free opinion and the ultimate moderation of all debate, then by many accounts this is the worst evil humans are capable of committing. </p>
<p>The readings I have been doing this week as part of a summer program have all centered around the ideal of an enlightened society. Somewhat interestingly they all speak of free speech and action while defining morality as socially affecting decisions. Also recently I became aware of the debate between Ezra Levant and Syed Soharwardy. Levant, as publisher of the now defunct Western Star (Calgary newspaper), re-published the heated <a href="http://www.outsidethebeltway.com/danish_muslim_cartoons/">danish made muslim cartoons</a>. I hate to reincarnate an already flogged horse, but this debate is indicative of today&#8217;s globalization-driven free speech debates. This particular argument between Levant and Soharwardy was used mostly for media fodder. The arguments used are extreme, ridiculous and sweepingly general. At its core though the argument is a good one. Levant argues for free speech and the right to exercise his reason in any public forum to which he has access. Soharwardy, though not rebuking free speech, attempts to draw limitations on the ideal; in essence invoking the dreadful concept of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Political_correctness">political correctness</a>. A note: Soharwardy recalled his complaint to the Alberta Human Rights Commission this past February. <a href="http://www.theglobeandmail.com/servlet/story/RTGAM.20080215.wcomment0215/BNStory/specialComment/">In doing so</a> he cited his original unawareness of ongoing debates about the role and jurisdiction of the HRC, and his current questioning of the legitimacy of the organization&#8217;s current status. </p>
<p>Both sides throughout the debate, and always in the media, draw many erroneous analogies and build many straw-men. With references to Orwell&#8217;s 1984 and Stalin-esque regimes, as well as to white supremacy and racism, both sides managed to make a genuinely rational and necessary debate into a farce worthy of E! entertainment. This is the biggest problem that I see in discussing such things in public forums; there is such a lack of respect and trust that neither party in any such debate can maintain any sort of decorum. It is not racism or Stalinism which ruins these debates, it is both parties&#8217; inability to focus on the issue; instead they are drawn to <a href="http://www.don-lindsay-archive.org/skeptic/arguments.html">a list of fallacious arguments</a> a mile long. I am convinced that <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5E0wuJvFo1k&#038;NR=1">each statement</a> each party makes is a crap shoot of fallacies. I won&#8217;t pretend to know what social factors contribute to this intellectual machismo, or whether it is simply a measuring of&#8230;.egos. In any case, some trust in each party&#8217;s ability to be reasonable and stay on issue is essential. In order for this to happen some respect for each party - and their stance - is mandatory. This is not a trivial matter, it comes down to the construction of an enlightened society.</p>
<p>It was Frederick II the Great who succinctly asked of Immanuel Kant, &#8220;What is Enlightenment?&#8221; The king of Prussia received, in response to his question, perhaps one of the greatest arguments against realism, materialism and authoritarianism ever provided:</p>
<blockquote><p>A greater degree of civil freedom seems advantageous to a people&#8217;s spiritual freedom; yet the former established impassable boundaries for the latter; conversely, a lesser degree of civil freedom provides enough room for all fully to expand their abilities. Thus, once nature has removed the hard shell from this kernel for which she has most fondly cared, namely, the inclination to and vocation for free thinking, the kernel gradually reacts on a people&#8217;s mentality (whereby they become increasingly able to act freely), and it finally even influences the principles of government, which finds that it can profit by treating men, who are now more than machines, in accord with their dignity.</p></blockquote>
<p>Kant discusses the paradox of the ability for humans to exercise free speech while working in a society which functions based on set norms. He uses throughout the example of a priest. While the priest must preach to his congregation the values and ideals of the church, he may not wholly subscribe to them but must only assume that some truth may possibly therein be found. As a person commissioned to teach certain values, he may not be entirely free in this role. However, as a free agent in the public he may be completely free in addressing any issue he pleases in his writings and speech. It is this paradox in which we must work daily, until such time as the system changes to &#8220;treat men, who are more than machines, in accord with their dignity&#8221;. </p>
<p>So why do we need the HRC to judge our debates? Because we are still unenlightened in our &#8220;self-incurred immaturity&#8221;. To escape from this we must take Kant&#8217;s advice, &#8220;Sapere aude! Have courage to use your own understanding&#8221;.</p>
<p>This is all well, but it is also true that words can hurt. Undoubtedly when Kant was writing he was unaware of the extent of interdependency which would result from the 300+ years of globalization (read: colonization) after his death. However, society has enabled us with the capacity to intellectualize without causing undue harm. Much like manners for interaction with strangers, respect for and trust in the &#8220;opposing&#8221; party allows a certain objectivity in free speech and discussion. Most important however is the realization that, ultimately, nothing can be free of debate. It is only when exclusions occur that resentment, disrespect and distrust follow. There is no reason for even man&#8217;s most deeply held belief to be free of questioning. Of course, every person is entitled to their own beliefs, but nothing on this earth makes these beliefs sacred and sovereign. </p>
<p>&#8220;This <em>instinct of freedom</em> forced into being latent - it is already clear - this instinct of freedom forces back, trodden back, imprisoned within itself, and finally only able to find vent and relief in itself; this, only this, is the beginning of the &#8220;bad conscience&#8221;.<br />
- <em>Nietzsche from The Genealogy of Morals, discussing the origin of &#8220;bad conscience&#8221; in society. Like Kant he sees the quelling of free expression as a great evil and the origin of all &#8220;bad conscience&#8221; or resentment.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know what I like, I know what I&#8217;m good at. At least I do in my life right now. But what if these skills do not agree with the societal norms in which I have grown up? What if my greatest contribution can be made in a way that is not recognized by those who deem recognition necessary? I have realized recently what can make me happy. Although it may not be the only thing, it is certainly a strong one. I have an idea of what my contribution can be; is this what it is to be called? How am I to reconcile the perceived expectations of me, and my knowledge of myself? </p>
<p><strong>Expectations</strong><br />
Do expectations exist? Clearly they do not in perceived reality, only conceived in thought. They are, in simple terms, possible outcomes in which we invest ourselves (emotionally and otherwise). It follows then that the elimination, or limitation, of investment in personal expectations could have a beneficial outcome. It is not the awareness of the possible outcome which can be harmful, rather it is the personal investment in it. Should it not happen how one has expected it can result in shame, anger, disappointment, and many other negative emotions. Should the outcome be in accordance with one&#8217;s expectation it can result in excessive pride, egoism, and other harmful emotional states. So, once again, comes the conclusion that limiting one&#8217;s investment in an outcome is conducive to holistic well-being. Does this follow for others&#8217; expectations of you?</p>
<p>Do others&#8217; expectations of another exist? I will take this example as expectations occurring solely in another&#8217;s thought. Again, as a conception in the other person&#8217;s mind, they must exist. If expectation for the outcome of an event is possible, then so too must an expectation for the person who controls the creation of said event be. The questions raised here are many:</p>
<p>1. Awareness: Because the expectation occurs in the thought of another, is it possible to become aware of said expectation?<br />
2. Since elimination is not possible, is there a method for reconciliation?<br />
3. Must another&#8217;s expectations be in conflict with the path one has chosen?</p>
<p>All of these questions raise still other questions. Each is incredibly complex and I am not even close to being able to think about them. However, one thing about expectations is clear to me: whether consciously or sub-consciously they create preparatory attitudes which <em>will</em> be destructive. They prime a person to feel a certain emotion, anger, pride etc. This means that the outcome is not being perceived as truthfully as it might otherwise be; it is clear that reaction before the action makes no sense. The real questions are: how does the person who is &#8220;receiving&#8221; the expectation help in its elimination? Is that something which the &#8220;receiver&#8221; can attempt, or something that they can ignore?</p>
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		<title>Back In Blue</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, it&#8217;s been a long time indeed. There are many reasons for this, including a french person who decided my site needed a little malicious code, but I will not expound on these. Rather I would like only to thank my fantastic friend/tech support guy who puts up with all my crap when I feel the techstration* rising. Thank you Charlie!</p>
<p>Well, there is lots of news which will begin to leak onto this bright blue blog throughout the coming months. For now, enjoy the peacefulness this blue is supposed to bring and feel welcome in my new space. Take a minute to get accustomed and learn the layout. Recent post links are at the bottom, comments, archives and categories to the right, options to the left of any post. Pages, as usual, are at the very top. Only one post will show per page, even in the archives, which means that you will have to access posts individually by pressing back at the bottom of each post. This may change. Also Any suggestions for the new place, as always, would be greatly appreciated.</p>
<p><em>*I have invented this word to account for the unending frustration caused me by all manner of things technological. I still have hair thanks only to those couple of people who not only know what they are doing but also are willing to deal with my unending ignorance. Thank you Charlie and Rushan! </em></p>
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		<title>Not the best&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Dec 2007 04:58:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[but not the worst either. I am beginning to realize that life can very often be about accepting a situation or circumstance that may not be the best, but finding comfort in the fact that it certainly isn&#8217;t the worst either. Perhaps this is the beginning of my loss of childhood idealism, but that may [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>but not the worst either. I am beginning to realize that life can very often be about accepting a situation or circumstance that may not be the best, but finding comfort in the fact that it certainly isn&#8217;t the worst either. Perhaps this is the beginning of my loss of childhood idealism, but that may not be the worst thing that could happen! Take for example this blog. Although I post relatively seldom, due to many issues (procrastination, time and lack of motivation to name a few), the posts I write I like to think are usually of decent quality. More to the point however, is that they almost always help me sort out my thoughts, and on those rare times when I get a few comments, can actually help me come to conclusions about difficult decisions. So this is my way of saying thank you to my blog and a declaration of sorts of my New Year&#8217;s resolution. </p>
<p>In 2008 I resolve to be as aware as possible of life&#8217;s infinite complexities and realize that the best is not always real. Not settling for less, simply accepting that some situations are not as bad as they may seem, in contrast with reality rather than with a lofty goal.</p>
<p>I am writing this midnight out of the thoughts I had from something I read. The something I read was my good friend&#8217;s blog post entitled <em><a href="http://www.randomprocess.ca/">Happiness on the East Coast</a></em> (Han, 2007). Read it for yourself and discover the top ten &#8220;happiest&#8221; cities in the 10th Happiest nation (Canada). From the title one can deduce that a majority of these cities might be in eastern Canada. What might not be obvious, although perhaps not surprising, is the size of these cities: small. The reason that this may not come as a surprise is that, especially recently, the ideal of a small city is romanticized. A place where everyone knows everyone else and cares for everyone else; where conversations are struck up with a passerby on a walk &#8220;into town&#8221;. As Charlie so aptly puts it: &#8220;Houses would be left unlocked, and not accidentally either&#8221; (Han, 2007). </p>
<p>Well I would like, for a moment, to gaze into my past with a slightly less romantic view on small cities. As most who read this journal know, I grew up in a city of roughly 35,000. In reality the actual town might consist of about 15,000 including the downtown core and the residential areas outlying. The &#8220;amalgamated&#8221; Charlottetown is the mega-city of 35,000. Not tiny, but certainly not a hub of any kind. Admittedly we are pampered in Charlottetown, as the capitol of the province and the country&#8217;s most historic aid-project (i.e. money dump), we are home to many &#8220;big-city&#8221; amenities. But the conservative, insular, and downright fallacious gossip culture has not left despite the efforts of many previous attempts at urbanization. You are known in Charlottetown by your familial record. What you have accomplished and the mark you leave may add to this, but one can never forsake the triumphs and follies of the family tree. Telling of this is how a typical Island greeting plays out: &#8220;Hi, James MacDonald, nice to meet you.&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Is your father Ronny by any chance. My god, he was my dentist for a while, great guy!&#8221; In this 30 seconds judgements are made, expectations set; not on one&#8217;s own merit, but on the merit of one&#8217;s last name. And who knows what rumors have been circulating about poor James MacDonald&#8217;s wife. Contrary perhaps to common perception, small community members don&#8217;t spend <strong>all</strong> their time holding hands, singing songs and borrowing sugar from the neighbor. While borrowing the sugar Jane might chat about how the people next door keep their lawn in such <em>horrendous</em> shape. Or, perhaps about the city is going to hell in a rather large hand-basket because &#8220;those damn kids&#8221; are loitering and smoking by the church. Maybe, even, a chat about how &#8220;they&#8221; are just letting to many damn CFAs (come from aways) in these days. That&#8217;s right Jane&#8230;just kick everyone who isn&#8217;t white, catholic (or protestant, depending) out of the country. For an hilariously exaggerated look at small town politics watch the film <em>Hot Fuzz</em>, they have it to a tee.</p>
<p>Just a few years ago I longed for the anonymity of a big city. Since, I have come to realize the bounty offered in a small town/city. The community, the easily accessible resources in everything from local food to education. In the developed countries of the world, where the populations have the means, there is a general trend away from big cities. While developing populations rush headlong into factory fueled cities like it was the beginning of the industrial age and the green revolution, we head out. We are beginning to rediscover the simplicity and the meaning to be found in small communities. Movements like the slow food movement, the organic/local farming movement, the green spaces movement and the small is beautiful movement all lead the way from high rises to bungalows. Rather than stubbornly resist I am going with the flow this time. I have come to realize that being brought up in a place where I always have somewhere to turn and someone to turn to has given me more than I imagined. The simple act of turning a key in a lock carried such symbolism it is surprising we are not more depressed in our modern world. The smiles I see when I walk to the farmers market and the excitement in someone&#8217;s face when you discover a mutual friend easily makes up for the few gossip mongrels that hound the locals. I would gladly give up the malls, theatres and skyscrapers for a cup of coffee on a friend&#8217;s porch (perhaps with some bread baked by a neighbor). Vive la revoluciÃ³n pequeÃ±a!</p>
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		<title>A change in literacy</title>
		<link>http://www.commontone.net/2007/11/12/a-change-in-literacy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Nov 2007 01:21:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When thinking previously of literacy I thought of texts and writing. I have now defined a new part of literacy as “artistic literacy” and this forms a new understanding for me. Even while studying it the idea of music as a form of communication of ideas (not just emotions) was not available to me. In [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When thinking previously of literacy I thought of texts and writing. I have now defined a new part of literacy as “artistic literacy” and this forms a new understanding for me. Even while studying it the idea of music as a form of communication of ideas (not just emotions) was not available to me. In fact, in academic music, this idea of music as a language is considered invalid and was not even presented. . In my time at RC I have developed a new idea of music, and enjoy the concept as a growth in my understanding of literacy.”</p>
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		<title>Simplification</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Nov 2007 14:41:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am giving up my laptop. And my cellphone. I have been doing a time, space and personal audit over the last few days and I realize that what takes up most of my time (laptop) goes against what value. Since I am paying for my cell, but really don&#8217;t use it much, I decided [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am giving up my laptop. And my cellphone. I have been doing a time, space and personal audit over the last few days and I realize that what takes up most of my time (laptop) goes against what value. Since I am paying for my cell, but really don&#8217;t use it much, I decided to get rid of it altogether. So I am putting my cell up for free on facebook. As for my laptop, I have removed the battery and power cable and given both to an unbiased third party to keep until such time as I can control my addiction, if ever. You may ask how I am writing this now. Well, there is a computer lab in the Renaissance College, open to students 24/7. I can access email, microsoft office and blogs, but not much else (no tv&#8230;since there is no sound, movies etc.). So I can work or write, what I want to be able to do on a computer. I am hoping this will translate into more time reading, reflecting and generally just being&#8230;without a screen. I have nothing againt computer or technology, those of you who know me, know I have gadget-geek tendencies. But enough is enough. I am here to learn, not to watch TV, and since I&#8217;m not learning everything I want to learn in school; it&#8217;s time that the onus for education was on me. Wish me luck!</p>
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		<title>How does one person change the world?</title>
		<link>http://www.commontone.net/2007/11/06/how-does-one-person-change-the-world/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Nov 2007 15:13:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Like this:




With years of research, education, passion and tireless work. This guy is smart, but he&#8217;s not the only one out there. How do you get the message out there? With humor, and through mediums that people use. Remind me, how many people use youtube? Watch this video, and watch any or all of the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like this:<br />
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<p>With years of research, education, passion and tireless work. This guy is smart, but he&#8217;s not the only one out there. How do you get the message out there? With humor, and through mediums that people use. Remind me, how many people use youtube? Watch this video, and watch any or all of the 40+ follow up videos, explaining the reasoning behind the video. No-one likes doomsday messages, and that is all the GCC movement seems to be delivering these days. Lots of promises of annihilation and no support. The best way to get lots of people to do something is not to promise to kill them in the near future, but to empower them and lift them up.
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<p>This video explains one of the biggest reasons why I left music, and for that reason it hits home especially hard with me. In times of turbulence people rise up to the challenge, and I want to be on the front lines.</p>
<p>finally I have only one word to say: Manpollo</p>
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